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Ultimately, we all want the same thing: a relationship in which the other person always understands me. Period (no fuss). Unfortunately, a relationship is one
We carry inside us the wonders we seek outside us. Rumi.
”I am deeply passionate and have the confidence that respectfully collaborating with the ancient wisdom of entheogenic plants, within a safe set & setting for participants, contributes to profound healing.
This allows unresolved emotional, traumatic events and physical blockages to be resolved. It creates space for creativity, profound insights and above all the ability to find peace and relaxation within oneself‘‘.
I am certified as a psychedelic process therapist and consistently pursue further education through diverse trainings and courses. Drawing from a background as a whole foods specialist, nutrition advisor and working in the corporate sector, I bring together a unique combination of different skills and perspectives on the desire to self discovery, heal and personal growth.
Together with experienced process therapists, trained plant facilitators and/or healthcare providers, I support individuals through psychedelic plants in the form of ceremonies.
The use of entheogenic plants intertwines with various therapeutic and holistic methods such as Leela therapy, NLP, voice dialogue sessions, non-violence communication, regression visualizations, (traumatic) rebirthing practices and mindfulness exercises.
These techniques are strengthened by (live) music, singing, integration sessions and various relaxation techniques.
“In addition to guiding clients, I regularly engage with psychoactive plants like psilohuasca, ayahuasca, and psilocybin as part of my inner work, training and ongoing lessons.”
My interests are diverse, they include; buddhism teachings, the cycles of birth and death (Stanislav Grof), the proces of healing traumatic experiences, traumatic birth and the conscious mind.
I find these subjects fascinating because they show us how we develop coping mechanisms, addictions and destructive behaviors in our lives.”
My mission
About me
Plants are the cornerstone of my life: entheogenic plants for cleansing our souls and plant-based nutrition for strengthening our bodies.
I’ve always been a curious person, which has led me to unknown places, situations, and experiences. Through trial and error, I’ve learned a lot about myself, how to interact with people, and how to navigate challenging situations.
However, there was a period when I lost that curiosity. I wasn’t conscious and simply followed the crowd.
During my search, I realized that much of what I had taught myself needed to be discarded. Easier said than done, as I found myself in a prolonged inner struggle, torn between who I thought I was and who I actually wasn’t.
Frequently, questions filled with doubt would arise. Ultimately, I was left wondering: ‘Who am I, and can I trust my own feelings and body?'”
I wanted to be that free bird in overalls and sneakers—the kind of person who never lost sight of her authentic self since primary school and fully embodied it. Yet, I experienced some issues with that. I quickly ended up fully made-up, high heels included, fully ‘in control of everything’ and doing what I was supposed to do. That was my struggle: breaking free from the moral script and starting to live my own story.
I worked in the corporate sector for over nine years as a young woman. It was predominantly a masculine culture, a place where (looking back) I wandered around with a hudge question mark above my head. My mask was a smile, hiding an unhappy person who didn’t really know how to be a woman—other than following the prescribed image.
I was especially unhappy because I had never given myself the space for self-exploration or to listen to my own needs. One thing I knew for sure: ‘ This rat race is going to destroy me if I keep going.’
I am grateful that life urged me to change course. It sparked a zest for life within me, along with a deep curiosity and interests— that remains strong and will never end.
Since 2014, I have pursued various trainings focused on nutrition and health, the self-healing capacity of humans, traumatic experiences and our consciousness mind. Primarily from a holistic perspective.
Eventually I experienced a psychedelic plant ceremony with Ayahuasca. They have brought about the greatest change and depth in me and in how I understand life.
The first plant ceremonies felt—despite the challenges—like coming home. A sweet surrender, although I also realized that a lot of unprocessed painful material would come to the surface. I approached the planting process with humility, commitment, and a willingness to learn from various therapeutic and spiritual teachings and methods…… and then we will see what unfolds.
By now, I have a lot of experience working with plants and people, and almost eight years have passed since I started guiding groups. As a natural part of this work, I undergo my own processes, teachings, and purification with the sacred plants on a regular basis (weekly or biweekly).
From my many personal experiences, I can share that participants feel safer and can therefore dive deeper within themselves when the process facilitator or therapist has also engaged in long-term deep inner work, rather than merely learning from books, screens and theory.
Know yourself: simple words for one of the deepest questions.
“Joop van der Hagen is one of the most important teachers for me when it comes to therapeutic work with psychedelic plants, as well as practicing awareness and spiritual growth. I completed my training as a process therapist with Joop. I regularly join his trainings to learn and deepen my practice.
Joop is a wise and conscious human being who does not present himself as a shaman or medicine man, nor does he elevate himself onto a pedestal. He stays true to his natural state of being, free from the trappings of a spiritual ego or by pass.
“My wish was to meet a true teacher in this extraordinary field. ‘Grateful’ is an understatement”
My ROLE
I find the human being incredibly interesting and this interest deeply fulfills me in the work I do.
My strengths lie in providing safety and easily connecting with people, maintaining both professionalism and humanity. With a non-judgmental attitude, compassion, calmness, and a touch of humor, I guide individuals to explore themselves, enabling them to become more self-assured and aware in life.
I believe that only through compassion one can truly see the truth within themselves
Through psychedelic plant ceremonies, I offer a safe, warm environment where I remain honest and open. There is space for everything with no boxes or labels like right and wrong. My goal is to provide support so that you have the opportunity to investigate and discover your own truth and talents and to feel what needs to be feld.
By experiencing your own resilience in life with an open heart, your self-confidence will grow, allowing you to navigate with more ease with during challenges and difficult times.
The valuable lesson I take with me in this work is that I cannot help others, but I can lovingly confront them to encourage self-awareness and discovery
Have you been inspired by this story? Feel free to send an email; who knows, we might meet during the monthly psychedelic plant processes.
Warms,
Carlijn
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